Q.
How did you find the barn?
A. Well, after exhausting all of our resources in Kalamazoo
looking for a hall, we stumbled on news article mentioning
the Blue Dress Barn. It is the old House of David barn that
has been purchased and restored by a pair of Artists into
an elegant reception hall with rustic charm. It comes complete
with a bar, dance floor, and wrought iron chandeliers. Meghann
and I fell in love with it as soon as we walked in and we
are sure you will too when we see you there in June. |
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Q.
What does the Chinese Character on your invitations and on
the top of the website mean?
A. It is the character of Double Happiness and our version
was created by Meghann's Dad Mr.Tang. here is the story of
where it comes from:
"A large Chinese character, Double Happiness, on a
red piece of paper or in paper cut is always put where it
must strike the eyes on a young couple's wedding. It has a
story behind it.
In the ancient Tang Dynasty, there was a student who was on
the way to the capital to attend the national final examination,
in which the top learners would be selected as the ministers
in the court. Unfortunately, he fell ill halfway when he passed
through a mountain village. Thanks to a herbalist doctor and
his daughter, he was taken to their house and treated well.
He recovered quickly due to the father and the daughter's
good care. Well, when he had to leave, he found it hard to
say good-bye to the pretty girl, and so did she. They fell
in love. So the girl wrote down the right hand part of an
antithetical couplet for the student to match:
"Green trees against the sky in the spring rain while
the sky set off the spring trees in the obscuration."
"Well, I can make it though it is not easy. But you'll
have to wait till I have finished the examination." replied
the student. The young girl nodded in significance.
In the examination the young man won the first place, who
was appreciated by the emperor. Also the winners were interviewed
and tested by the emperor. As luck would have it, he was asked
by the emperor to finish a couplet, which would need a right
part as the answer. The emperor wrote:
"Red flowers dot the land in the breeze's chase while
the land colored up in red after the kiss."
The young man realized immediately the right part of the couplet
by the girl was the perfect fit to the emperor's couplet,
so he took the girl's part as the answer without hesitation.
The emperor was delighted to see the matching half of his
couplet was so talent and harmonious that he authorized the
young man's identity as Minister in the court and allowed
him to pay a visit to his hometown first before holding the
post. The young man met the girl happily at home and told
her the emperor's couplet. They soon got married. For the
wedding, the couple DOUBLED the Chinese character, HAPPY,
together, on a red piece of paper and put it on the wall to
express the happiness for the two events. And from then on,
it has been taken on and became a social custom." |
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